Really need your help and views on herpes please?!?

The only way you will get some assurance is if you to go for STD testing. Keep in mind that it is your health and you are responsible for it and not some person who is making guarantees by way of text messages. You have to take care of yourself and even though you may use proper prevention techniques, it still isn't 100% successful. Get yourself checked out with some blood work and then you can put these worries behind you. Based on the description you have very little to worry about but better to get it checked out and know. In general, you should never trust another persons word on such matters because they may lie, they may not know something is wrong, or various other reasons that may result in your acquiring an infection. It is always your responsibility to be aware and act to protect yourself, don't leave it the hands of another person.