A non virgin and her future husband?

A decent man won't judge you because your hymen is ripped and won't check your sheets for blood because it's insulting and degrading to question a woman's virtue like that, it shows lack of trust which is a sign of an unsuccessful marriage. He'd give you the benefit of the doubt and know that the hymen is not proof of virginity (some girls are even born without hymens and there are many ways by which it can be torn). Just don't marry an idiot who will judge you and ask about your past sins, he should wait for you to bring them up. I'd rather not get married than marry someone so narrow minded.